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Dating/ Thanksgiving dinner!!!?

I recently met this lady. I'm 31, she's 25. We had been talking online and met up at a little bar then went and got something to eat. We talked for several hours. The next night we went out again and it seems as if we both had a really good time, I know I did and I'm very interested in her. We are supposed to go out again this coming weekend. My question here is....If we go out a few more times and everything keeps going really good (maybe it develops into something) should I invite her to Thanksgiving dinner. I know for sure my family would totally approve of it. She's not from the area where we live therefore she has no family around. Thanksgiving is only a few weeks away so I'm not sure if it would be arrpopriate to invite her since her and I just met. If I do invite her at what point should I do that, should I do it a couple weeks in advance or wait 'till just a few days prior to the holliday??? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks

Public Comments

1. Aww thats sweet! Take Her I think you will marry her!
2. Since she has no family in the area it would be very nice to invite her. If she feels uncomfortable with it (and she might for a list of valid reasons) and declines, do not drill her on all the "why nots". Meeting the family can be very intimidating.
3. Thanksgiving is typically about the coming together of family and good friends to enjoy food, festivities, and the simple pleasure of one another's company. I see no reason why you should not invite your new lady friend to the holiday dinner with your family, especially if she has no family of her own nearby. It would be a kind and thoughtful gesture that I am certain she would apppreciate. If your relationship with this lady continues to be pleasant for you both, then ask her perhaps a week before the planned event to give her enough time to prepare her schedcule. Even though she has no family close by, though, do not be surprised if she is used to traveling a good distance to be with them during such holidays as this. If that is the case, she may be unable to accept your invitation due to her own family obligations but, nevertheless, she will appreciate the offer just the same. Really, I don't see where you have anything to loose by extending such a kindness to her, so I say ask.
4. Well if you continue to see her, why not invite her to Thanksgiving dinner. Only thing is if she is not from the area she may end up going out of town to visit with her family. So you may want to bring up the idea to her soon, very soon. That way you can find out what her plans are for Thanksgiving. And if things conflict she has time to rearrange them if she can. So I would do it like this weekend, I know that sounds abit rushed but it isn't that long till Thanksgiving anyway. Happy Turkey Day.